If I have an RF mod that has machines with distinct advantages over alternatives, it will be added to a pack just for that and then standard, lossless conduits will be used.
That's perhaps your personal choice, but it wouldn't be everyone's. If someone preferred complex to plug-and-play, why would they put plug-and-play into the pack?
You seem to be missing the point in that too many of the RF fans take it as gospel that RF 'should' be "machine A next to dynamo B" simplistic and that they quite likely outnumber those who want complex RF mods by a factor of at least ten.
I'm not missing the point, I am stating 'Mu'. It is a position on a different tangent. It doesn't matter how badly they are outnumbered. You see, let me share with you a little secret about modded minecraft: usership volume doesn't matter. You don't get money off of how many users you attract to your mod. You don't get anything tangible, in point of fact. It doesn't matter if it is the most reviled mod since PodzolToDiamonds or the most popular mod since NEI.
The argument is: "I don't like RF because it isn't complex". This argument is refuted. You *CAN* build complex energy networks using the RF API. People complaining about it being complex is a whole different issue and one that is, quite bluntly, irrelevant. People complain about Gtech and BTW. They still exist, and have users. People complain about IC2-EX, yet others play it. I don't understand why you are so worried about people complaining... when have they ever *NOT* complained?
And this:
Put a complex RF mod in the same pack with a simple RF mod and compare usership. I would say the results will surprise you, but frankly, we all know the outcome already. Players always gravitate towards the easiest option unless significant benefits exist for not doing so.
Again, 'Mu'. This is tangential to the argument at hand. If you want an enjoyable complex mod pack, why would you have any simple RF in your pack? Wouldn't that defeat the purpose?
Something I do want to point out: Being able to make a complex RF system doesn't equate to being permitted to force it down anyone's throat, just like being able to make a simple RF system doesn't equate to being permitted to force THAT down anyone's throat. If someone else wants to use a simpler RF system... more the power to them. That doesn't mean you have to, and it doesn't invalidate a complex RF system just because some, or even many, don't enjoy that play style.
Some people play Creative because they just enjoy building megastructures. And that's a perfectly valid playstyle. Some like playing UHC. And that's also a perfectly valid playstyle. There is no 'one true playstyle', any complaints about 'doing it wrong' are not only baseless, they're based on incorrectly applying 'right' or 'wrong' to the conditional 'playstyle'. It makes about as much sense as 'one plus one equals orange'.