my opinion on RF. (this is ignoring all post before this, and is just my opinion)
it is a nice API. it has nice mods. most of the mods are too easy for me, but to each their own. my problem with RF is that, as TE and others have begun using RF, (some of) the RF community has begun to expect all RF mods to be like them. that is why i think a complex RF mod would be hated.(by some) also, if you wanted to make your mod have "lossy" power in your cables(lossy machines would be pretty cool imo, and i don't see a problem with them) then you would need to have your machines not allow energy from non-lossy cables. i can just imagine the, well, shitstorm (XD) if (some)people discovered that you were not allowing them to use non-lossy cables with your mod. i agree, if you have a FC type attitude(not saying that is bad) then you will be able to withstand the hate, but many people cannot.
basically, RF is ok, but (some of) the community for it has grown into expectance that RF mods be non-lossy/easy/plug and play(examples) and would greatly dislike a mod that differs from their expectance.