Fair enough, but you have to take into consideration that for every x = easy to give your userbase an update, there is at least an y=>x = reasons for not giving your userbase an update.
In other words, there might be an imaginable amount of reasons for her to just go an post something on twitter, there might also be an imaginable amount of reasons for her to be incapable of doing so. Alas, only time will tell. And until it does, the FTB team decides.
I actually agree with all of this. However, the only people that suffer if a mod author doesn't communicate in a timely manner are the FTB users. That's why I suggested a set of standards. Like some form of communications once every two weeks, or something like that.
We all know real life gets in the way. I don't think anyone will argue that. But either give to the community or don't. The choice is entirely theirs. But when other people are relying on at least hearing whether or not a mod is going to be updated so that they can work on releasing an updated pack, then you have a responsibility to keep the rest of the team aware of what's going on.