So if i run a server the way i want, its not ok, but mod devs are supposed to be able to make a mod however they want?
Lathanael covered this well.
The problem are Server Admins which advertise their server with running Monster for example and do not mention what they have disabled or changed and introduce rules after the server started without consulting their community. Or even worse hide certain blocks/machines/items behind a donator fee or even monthly subscription.
As well no one forces you to use a mod but by the same token no one forces you to play on a server so both points are a bit moot.
Which is totally true. people can voice their opinions though, and a smart developer should listen. If you want people to play it, listen to feedback, as long as it is presented in a polite way of course. If you don't care, and just want to stick to your vision, that's fine too.
Money seeking devs are generally the ones that compromise their own vision for what others want. Smart devs find a ground in between where they can satisfy what people want as much as possible but also adhere to their own vision.
Now tell me why this make sense, but apparently you can criticize someone like me FOR PAYING FOR MY OWN SERVER and doing WHAT I WANT WITH IT?
As long as you tell people what to expect there is nothing to be criticized.
I clicked another one, removing enchantments. One guy said he wanted to remove protection IV, but keep lower level protection enchantments.
What happens is if someone comes here and says they would like to make the game harder, people often say that the game was not MEANT to be hard. "Vanilla is easy too, its how the game is, its not supposed to be a combat game"
And in the same breath, people will say that minecraft is a sandbox and we can all play the game how we want.
But if someone wants a plugin to remove Protection 4 to make combat a teeny tiny bit more challenging, they're a sadist.
So I've said this before but; if the vanilla game of minecraft does not offer a balance you prefer(this only really applies to those that think vanilla MC is overpowered in certain aspects) don't expect many people to go along with your preferred balance. Mind you I understand turning to mods to find something closer to what you do want but most already do not want that from mods. Most people that get into modded MC already enjoyed vanilla MC balance wise or other since vanilla at one point did not even have survival as an option. Thus most mods that are made simply add on to vanilla MC and generally make it even easier than vanilla or simply extend the mechanics of it. Because of this those that already seek a nerfed style of vanilla should not turn to mainstream mods at all if they wish to satisfy that desire. Most mainstream mods simply won't cater to that whim because the audience is going to be relatively small for reasons I already mentioned.