Not quite true. Anything with high enough gravity that isn't too close to a start can retain helium in its atmosphere. That includes gas giants and some of the so-called "super-Earths". As opposed to getting it from stars, we might actually be able to do the gas giant atmosphere extraction, it's just not cost-efficient.
True, that. But, even with Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune not being hot enough to melt a mining ship, there's gravity. Gas giants have the bad problem of providing nowhere to 'land', yet high enough gravity that trying to 'hover' is too expensive. So, you have to orbit at high speed and 'skim' the surface, which means a lot of friction/wear/tear. I can only imagine how violent/chaotic it is near the observable surface of one of those giants.
The moon is probably the cheapest way to get He3 on a 'massive' scale, i.e. on the order of kilograms.
As it is, terrestrial, man-made He3 is currently produced through tritium decay, with said tritium coming from
breeder reactors using lithium control rods.
And...wow. Talk about coming full circle:
Place lithium rods next to working fuel rods and they get instantly converted. So you need a big enough lithium supply and the rest is complex but cheap automation.
It's always nice when Minecraft technology mirrors real-life tech, albeit far simpler