That is called common sense plus what drive you have. Example, I learned to play the piano when I was youngre. Eight years of hard work to learn to read music, get timing down, and other things. I never once stated anywhere I am opposed to modpacks, mods, or anything. I stated before that mod developers should take their skills and make money on those skills. Modpack makers too should take the skills they learned and get a job that pays money and get wealthy via those skills.
My point is when you do it for yourself, by yourself, it is a much greater happiness then just waiting for others. Now if you don't have the drive or the desire, for myself cars elude me I don't see a reason to change them and rather have a professional look at mine when it isn't working, then by all means it is fine to seek alternative methods.