I think it's kinda silly that words are offensive. I understand, having been on the blunt end of racism due to the colour of my skin, what it's like to feel the heat that offensive words cause. But I am mature enough to realise that the word was not at fault, the word is just a word, it was actually the intent behind the word which offended me. In this case, if TLP has any "foul" language, then I would suggest consider the spirit in which it is written.
As a kid I was exposed to a lot of swear words, that's life, they're at school, they're on the tv., they're spoken even in some of my favourite literature, pretty much most great books contain words like fuck, shit etc. What I'm saying is, trying to protect children from swearwords is counterproductive, because then the child will get the feeling that the word is somehow 'bad' and either they will use the word out of cheekiness (because it's funny and fun to break the rules in a safe way) or they will judge others who use the word. In either case, wouldn't the child be better served by understanding the meaning of the word and being able to focus more on *the intent behind its use* rather than being stuck on the simple fact of its existence?
To be sure, my intention is definitely not to side against you boconus_yum, (I think one of the people you're talking with sounds kinda rude but I don't have the context so I'm staying out) I'm offering my invitation for you to consider some points that helped me when I was in a similar situation to what you seem to be in (offended by words).
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As a kid I was exposed to a lot of swear words, that's life, they're at school, they're on the tv., they're spoken even in some of my favourite literature, pretty much most great books contain words like fuck, shit etc. What I'm saying is, trying to protect children from swearwords is counterproductive, because then the child will get the feeling that the word is somehow 'bad' and either they will use the word out of cheekiness (because it's funny and fun to break the rules in a safe way) or they will judge others who use the word. In either case, wouldn't the child be better served by understanding the meaning of the word and being able to focus more on *the intent behind its use* rather than being stuck on the simple fact of its existence?
To be sure, my intention is definitely not to side against you boconus_yum, (I think one of the people you're talking with sounds kinda rude but I don't have the context so I'm staying out) I'm offering my invitation for you to consider some points that helped me when I was in a similar situation to what you seem to be in (offended by words).
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