Ya, MyTown just doesn't do what I want. If anyone knows of a plugin where I can preallocate large sections of land, and then assign people who can assign others that'd be cool. World Guard (Forge Essentials) seems to be nowhere near that point yet for forge, otherwise I'd be using it.
only thing that would come close to that i know would be http://www.minecraftforum.net/topic/1484373-146147smpfihgus-command-mods-for-vanilla-server/ and yes i know it says "for vanilla servers" but ive already played on servers that used it with FTB servers. was a while back but if nothing extraordinarily major has been changed since back when the ftb pack was only 2-3 weeks old it should still work.
with this you could make large sections of land as of if it was/is possible to make others the owner of specific sections with owner priviledges i dont remember anymore i know however that if you were the owner you were able to assign building/mining rights in your section that you did make.
only thing that ppl would have to keep in mind is that sectioning is done in a cuboid fashion. like 1st block is on bedrock lvl somewhere and then the 2nd block would be on height lvl 100 or so.