hmm, still seems like no dice D: i allocated 4GB but got the same crash, only soonerClient xD
out of curiosity i bumped it up to 5, but again, same crash.
(although this time while my client decided to freeze i got killed by a zombie and kicked from my own server before it promptly crashed again )
edit: this was taking forever to get approval for the links so i removed them, but rest assured the only difference in the newest (5gb) log was this line: "Memory: 1328816464 bytes (1267 MB) / 2108686336 bytes (2011 MB) up to 4772069376 bytes (4551 MB) JVM Flags: 3 total; -Xms256M -Xmx5120M -XXermSize=256m"