No it won't. You missed MY point completely. Those who dislike it can disable it or use packs that don't have it. I'm sure you're not the only one, so there's going to be plenty of servers out there for you. They're not going to discourage the use of a mod just because YOU don't like it. Especially a mod created by their friend.
I hate to break it to you, but it's probably going be in the main pack and a lot of the other ones too. You're going to have to disable it or use a pack that doesn't have it. Get over it. FTB doesn't revolve around you or what you do or don't like.
It's much less of an extra step for people/servers that don't like it to say "Download X pack and disable A B and C mods" rather than have people/servers download mods from somewhere else, side load them, and then hope there aren't any ID conflicts.
Okay, then you just failed to see it from my point of view.
For one, please stop being rude. I know FTB does not revolve around me. I'm trying to more strongly represent the views of those who are against EE, as well as my own views. I don't expect them to make a change because I want them to. However, what I do hope for is that by making a more detailed thread about the reasons EE should not be in default pack at the least, is that it will be realized how it unbalances the game and that it will at least only be part of one or two additional packs.
Again, if it's in the pack by default, and it feels less overpowered than the last version, most people will probably use it, despite it still being overpowered. There will be some servers without it, but will their community, hardware, setup, and all that sort of stuff be as good as the majority of servers, the ones that will have it? Probably not if EE is a default.
Also, a mod should not be added because the author of it is friends with creators of FTB, and is just trying to make it a bit less overpowered due to complaints. That's really not fair on any level. They can be friends, but his mod should be treated like any other. At this time, it's just at the point of duplicating the balanced functionality of GregTech's ability to exchange but making it easier and less balanced. There should be absolutely no way this mod is even considered, if we're following the rules that Jadedcat stated for mods that won't be accepted. So again, this is where I'm feeling some unfair favoritism for EE.
Actually, I'm not mad at all. If he had bothered to do a little searching, he would have seem that there's a million other treads about this that all end the same way: "If you don't like it, disable it."
It can't get any simpler or easier than that!
I did search, and I saw this many times. I addressed it before. I'm aware the common answer due to favoritism is "IT'LL BE IN THE FRICKIN PACK NOW SHUT UP WE'RE BETTER THAN YOU. DISABLE IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT" however again, if it's a default, more servers will have it than not, which isn't a good thing. As I said, it's really just duplicating GregTech, but not having as many features, and being too easy. And too many people like easy that they ruin the fun of most servers for those who don't like easy.