It's kind of weird when you think about it. Before, I could explain to my friend, "Oh, it's a collection of Minecraft mods that let you automate stuff like tree chopping and item storage so it's easier to get building materials and stuff."... Now it's much harder. Now I say, "So there's a lot of mods, except most of them are just clutter and can't be used because there's another mod that is for some reason defaulted to being on, even in singleplayer, and the goal is to get machines from that mod so you can get more stuff to make more machines. And vanilla objectives like creativity and building are completely separate and you can do that on your own time".
It all depends on how you want to play the game. I like machines. So I build a bunch of machines. You don't have to build tier 3 Gregtech machines if you don't want to. If all you want to do is make fancy looking buildings, but you don't like chopping down trees, you can set up a tree farm, then make fancy looking buildings out of wood. Or if you prefer stone, just make a cobble generator and never dig again.
That's actually what makes working together on a server so useful. I hate making buildings and have no creativity when it comes to that. But I'm working together with a guy who loves making fancy buildings and really hates the machine side. There's another guy who's really into bees and considers having to make power or tree farms to be necessary evils to bee breeding. So working together, the bee guy never has to worry about power or whether or not we have enough gold or copper or etc. He just does the bee stuff. The building guy made our base actually look nice instead of just being ugly buildings, but he didn't have to mess around with anything else. And I never leave the base because all I do is make machines.