So I have an Unweary Queen and it says it needs red stone. I am not sure what item I can put there so it can "eat" it. And I did try putting just a piece of red stone by it and it did not work.
Not really. Excited bees require redstone and those are bread from cultivated + valiant. So I think he was just mixing some cultivated, common and valiant bees and then it's pretty easy to end up with bees in the industrious line that have geens from the energetic line.