I'm not the injured party: I don't make any money off this mod, not even petty little adf.ly pennies; I don't get fame or recognition; I get exactly jack-diddly-squat from anyone anywhere doing anything with this mod. My license is so absurdly open and inviting that it's actually completely allowed for someone to take my entire source-code base, change the name to "Joe's Redstone In Motion", recompile and release it, without even CREDITING me. I have relinquished complete and total control of anything to do with my mod, because I want it to be forkable, and maintainable, and known: If I drop dead tomorrow, I want someone else to take it and keep it going.
You know who gets hurt here? The people who play your pack who want to use my mod but don't know a byte from a biscuit. The entire reason your pack (and our pack) exists is for those people, for whom "go in your config file and change 'sidesensitive' to 'true'" may as well be Sanskrit for all they can figure out how to do it. For all the people for whom "just add it manually" is a fruitless pursuit.
If you tell me my mod sucks, I'll say "Why?" and then change it. If you tell me my mod is broken, I'll say "How?" and then fix it. If you tell me "Screw you, you don't like us so we don't like you.", then you're a fool.
I honestly do not care in the slightest whether my mod gets into any pack anywhere. What I care about is your technologically-incapable players being denied the possibility of using my mod for grounds not connected to quality or reliability. If the day comes where my mod's feature-requests and bug-reports have fallen to the same density as the rest of the mods in the FTB pack, and it's still not in there, then the hypocrisy will be undeniable.
Test me: Tell me something that's broken in my mod, file a bug report, and see if I change it. Call the "bluff" I'm not making about caring what FTB people say regarding my mod. Pretend I'm in your pack, and see how I act.