I never said that. I'm not denying people hate Reika. There is
clearly a real hatedom there. And given that the internet is full of a-holes, some of those haters are going to be vocal. What I'm talking about why it continues.
The average idjit on the mod community street probably is more likely to have a negative view of Reika than not, I'm sad to say. But why? It's not a common affliction amongst modmakers.
@Reika
I'm going to sound like a fortune cookie here (a very... verbose fortune cookie) So apologies for that.
We create the narratives we live by. And I don't mean that in any sort of spacey, spiritual way.
Every time you paint yourself as the most hated person in the Minecraft community, somebody like me—with no stake in anything
—will believe you. You really don't want people thinking you're hated, because people generally and wrongly believe in a just universe where that's warranted. Every time you do something to forward that idea, you cement that thought. Every time you tell yourself that's the absolute truth, you force yourself further into a corner.
Take some random proverbial shmo. He has never heard the name Reika. He doesn't know what RC etcetcetc is. He runs across a situation like this. What does he see? A modmaker being far more defensive than any other modmaker. A crowd of peanut gallery seatwarmers rolling their eyes about it. And you, talking about how you're constantly attacked. How a whole segment of the community exists just to
spite you.
So what is this random shmo to think? Is everyone else the bad guy, or are you? Even just statistically speaking? What do you think people are going to bank on?
And so another group of people with a sadly negative Reika view is created. No evil forum admin illuminati required.
Leading back to my point from previous.
People think you're a jerk. That is the image they have. As you and 1M pointed out, I don't know the background. But I'm more concerned with the foreground. The foreground is all the new people you'll be running across. The bulk of the people that would play your mod and come out liking the name Reika. It's the popular support. It's the sea of faces that either smiles or frowns when you're spoken of.
I'm not saying if you kick back your feet, all will be well. I'm saying that it's never,
ever going to get better unless you do something to change the direction of the spiral headed toward the toilet drain.
People are being jerks to you? Screw 'em. If you act with good grace and humor, they come out looking like bastards while you smell like roses. When a post full of grouches in an IRC chat surfaces, do you point to it so everyone notices and talk about how much people hate you? Or do you shrug and say 'Yeah, what a bunch of jerks'. Which makes you look more reasonable?
Some pissant thirteen year old running a server on his parent's dime is selling your items? Do you double-down on protecting your code and hold it as a badge as to what will happen if you don't crack down? Or do you laugh it off as the
utterly hilarious farce that it is? Which do you think ends up with a Reika people look up to?
Some server owner is flailing his arms comically and screeching about something breaking when they Minetweaked half your stuff? Do you say 'Sorry, nobody else has that issue, and I can't diagnose that when you mess with it', or do you create an elaborate permission system that promises to keep your mod from view? Which is the one that makes you look friendly an approachable?
I have absolutely zero doubts that you are a thoughtful and intelligent sort. None. So I don't think I have to sell you on the idea that you can't make
gains just by trying to
erase a negative.
If you profoundly hate this reputation you have, and I can't imagine you don't, then forget the current plan of pointing out how much people love kicking you. Clearly, it's...um... going
super well. If the focus on being the harrowed, hermit mod developer with his small, loyal group of minions (or whatever) is making it worse, try a different version. Focus on not feeding that image, and try to present another part of you that's just as true. Let the drama fester out of everyone's eye where 99.999% of people will forget about it entirely, and be the kick-ass mod dev that makes kick-ass mods who wants kick-ass folks to try it. Maybe that tiny group of grumpycat impersonators will still hate you. Let them sit there in their IRC chats and
choke on their bad nature.
In other words: win some hearts. You can't do that by focusing on the ones you've already lost.
It'll be a hell of a lot better if the peanut gallery like Lumie can happily say 'Reika? Meh, leave off, he's a great guy. Try his mods before whining.', rather than 'Reika? Yeah, his collar is on three sizes too tight. Too bad, he's nice otherwise. I wish his stuff was more accessible'.