So people are just too lazy to try other mods and Gregtech making the IC2 stuff harder is the only way they get their asses to try other mods because they are better then. The problem here is the whole fact that there are multiple ways to achieve the same thing, ore doubling. If there was only one way to do this then this whole balancing mess wouldn't be necessary.
To me IC2 just changes the basic game so much that you end up doing IC2 stuff all the time. You want the electric tools and quantum armor because they're just too good. IC2 just doesn't really work with other mods for this reason, other mods do not add anything that would be better than IC2 tools and armor. Okay, you can make wood farm with Forestry but you won't need wood in the end. I guess you need rubber but you can get rubber from slimeballs and you can make an automated slime farm which doesn't require other mods.
So, I'm going to play Magic World pack because you can't end up invincible with quantum armor and can't troll Twilight Forest with mining lasers, jetpacks and portals. Many cross-mod exploits are also removed since most of them included IC2. It actually feels like a pack and not just IC2 with other stuff added to it.
You have some very valid points, and on a server most of what you have just said is true. However I like to play SSP and when playing SSP I like to have all of the mods together. I can then decide if I want to "cheat" pr "troll" Twilight Forest with my magic tech armor, or if I want to go in there with only vanilla tools and iron armor and have a challenge. I can also decide this way if I want to exploit cross mod bugs to make things easier, or if I want to do things a bit harder but more fun and more interesting. This has always been my take on mods like EE2. I always liked to have EE2 installed on my SSP 1.2.5 worlds. Sometimes I would just run through and go all EE build a milker and then have infinite resources to build anything I wanted with all of the fancy rings and gem armors. And sometimes I would touch EE until I had enough diamonds from legit mining (hand mining, BC quarry, RP quarry, ect.) and then I would spend all those diamonds to make something like the swift wolfs.
You see minecraft is a game of many faces (well 6 in total I suppose.
). And because of this you can play however you want, you want a mod that adds armor made of dirt that gives you god mode? Go make it! No ones going to stop you, you want to add that mod to your SSP world? More power to you. You see we all have our personal differences and we all play differently, and just as we all play differently we all have different things we would like to add to a mod. And its the same for all the different mod devs, they have different ways of looking at things and so they all make drastically different mods. Which IMHO is what gives Minecraft and all the mods that go with it so much variety and makes it so much fun. So really what would happen if you (or "I" or anyone else) pushed there opinions on everyone who plays minecraft? Well we would have a very different and quite frankly boring game. If every person was forced to think the same way as you (Again or "I" or anyone else) do then all mods would be the same, they would all follow the same rules of how they should "play" out and they would be quite boring.
Before the FTB pack came out I had no idea about gregs tech I had never heard of it before and frankly had no idea what it did. So I started researching it and at first to be quite honest I pretty much hated it. One thing I have always loved about IC2 is it has always been pretty much the same, no big changes, no massive overhauls, same recipes (More or less) and some items (again more or less). Then I add gregs tech into the game and everything was different. Super expensive recipes (To be argued, and mainly in comparison to the "vanilla" IC2 recipes), super slow machines (again mostly when compared to "vanilla" IC2), and completely different ways of getting things such as iridium. Finding all this made me go "Wow, why the heck would anyone want to mess around with a mod as perfect as IC2?". So what did I do? Well I took the mod out of my game and never looked back, (Joking). Well this was my first reaction, but then I stopped myself and starting thinking "well, you know obviously this is how someone else thinks that IC2 should be balanced which is cool I can understand that. I like how IC2 is but lets see what else this mod has to offer." You see I kept an open mind about the mod and then quickly found out that pretty much everything I didn't agree about the mod could be turned off via configs, and when I did this what was I left with? Well I was left with a mod that adds some really really amazing end game items that give me more to push for, more to go after even after I would have far by passed "vanilla" IC2.
So even though somethings may not work for some people (EE2, IC2, Gregtech, FTB mod pack, Technic mod pack). You have to let people make there own choices and be happy that they are not an exact clone of you (Good god would that be terrible). Choices are what make things like minecraft enjoyable, don't take that away from anyone else by forcing your opinion on anyone other then yourself.