In my experience diamonds are used LESS in modded minecraft since you don't have tools\armor which will break to eat them. I always end up with far more than I can easily use, sure IC2 will use a lot but it allows you to make them so it balances out, once you have auto mining and\or a nicely Lapis'd TiC pick you should be swimming in the damn things.
If you still want to have more though as already stated Thermal Expansion allows you to adjust all ores that it knows about you can create an overworld that is effectively a dense ores age if you really wanted to.
Iridium plates, AE, logistics pipes, etc. Though you aren't using diamonds for tools/armour, the same case can be said for all other materials. I don't remember the last time I made iron armour, nor do I intend on replace in my mining drill with an iron pickaxe.