Stirlings produce 16k RF baseline, just over 40k with Double-Layer, and well over 80k with the Octadic upgrade from a single piece of coal. The initial setup cost is vastly lower than even the smallest reactor, and upgrade materials can be synthesised "for free" using an EnderIO/MFR powered spawner, requiring no ugly quarry and no 20k RF/t baseline to get reasonable returns. Once you can actually afford a large quarry/laser drill by all means build a reactor, but with a Witch+Enderman spawner you won't actually need to do that for a very long time.I know that the x8 en x64 cost a bit more, but I was talking about when we'd start upgrading them. The mere fact that they both can produce more Rf/t in the end.
And you're forgetting to mention the furnace generator. I haven't found the total Rf a stirling engine can produce on a single piece of coal, but the XU furnace generator can produce up to 20k Rf and the recipe is relatively cheap. It's mostly iron, but by the time you're starting to mine redstone you'd normally have a fair bit of iron, so 14 pieces is not that much for easy power access.
Whether you decide to continue with BigReactors or upgrade whatever you have, is a worry for later. Mid game and Late game power production can always become good discussion in terms of what's "best", but this thread is about early game power production.
Though I admit... BigReactors pretty nice
In the end it's a matter of playstyle, if you want a decent, low-cost RF baseline to start playing with other things go lava or Stirling, if your main goal is INFINITE RF POWAH!! make a TiCon smeltery or 1-4 Survivalist gens, then go mine until you can afford a reactor-powered quarry and build up from there.