I know I keep posting this, but I see a lot of people with questions, struggling with AE2... I was struggling with it too, for the entire time I've been playing in my Infinity modpack world (months), I wasn't using AE2 autocrafting. I was making everything by hand (ugh) because I felt overwhelmed by the AE2 changes, and because I enjoy procrastinating. LOL
Well someone burned my wood house to the ground, and that motivated me to finally centralize my base and build this... it works wonderfully and now all my processing machines are hooked into it with full auto-crafting. Life is good again, like the AE1 days!