That is a counterexample, I literally said it wasBut the conclusion of your argument is that one element in any set that satisfies your (rather nebulous) requirement must be false. If you use that number (which is irrational) to fill in the elements of a multiset as described in the first line of the post you quoted, you'll find that all the elements are true. There can be no false elements because there are no odd digits in the number.
How, precisely, is that not a counterexample? (if it's not, tell me why- I'm trying to figure this out)

My argumentation however is correct, and thus it is an inherent logical contradiction, those are bad anyway, but y'know.
Also, if I were to make my self-referential definition more precise in order to avoid contradiction I could say "A set's elements are not self-referential if their true-false values are not generated in the same way (from the same source or otherwise) or depend on each other"