my friend logs on to the server than it kicks her off within to mins this is what the console says
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] java.net.SocketException: Software caused connection abort: socket write error
1056.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketOutputStream.socketWrite0(Native Method)
1057.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketOutputStream.socketWrite(Unknown Source)
1058.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketOutputStream.write(Unknown Source)
1059.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at org.bouncycastle.crypto.io.CipherOutputStream.write(Unknown Source)
1060.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.BufferedOutputStream.flushBuffer(Unknown Source)
1061.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.BufferedOutputStream.flush(Unknown Source)
1062.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.DataOutputStream.flush(Unknown Source)
1063.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at ci.run(SourceFile:120)
1064.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] java.net.SocketException: Software caused connection abort: recv failed
1065.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketInputStream.socketRead0(Native Method)
1066.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketInputStream.read(Unknown Source)
1067.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketInputStream.read(Unknown Source)
1068.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.FilterInputStream.read(Unknown Source)
1069.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at org.bouncycastle.crypto.io.CipherInputStream.nextChunk(Unknown Source)
1070.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at org.bouncycastle.crypto.io.CipherInputStream.read(Unknown Source)
1071.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.DataInputStream.readFully(Unknown Source)
1072.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.DataInputStream.readFully(Unknown Source)
1073.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at ef.d(Packet.java:348)
1074.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at ef.c(Packet.java:303)
1075.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at ev.a(SourceFile:27)
1076.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at ef.a(Packet.java:166)
1077.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at cg.i(TcpConnection.java:324)
1078.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at cg.c(TcpConnection.java:544)
1079.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at ch.run(SourceFile:93)
1080.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] java.net.SocketException: Software caused connection abort: socket write error
1081.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketOutputStream.socketWrite0(Native Method)
1082.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketOutputStream.socketWrite(Unknown Source)
1083.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketOutputStream.write(Unknown Source)
1084.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at org.bouncycastle.crypto.io.CipherOutputStream.write(Unknown Source)
1085.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.BufferedOutputStream.flushBuffer(Unknown Source)
1086.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.BufferedOutputStream.flush(Unknown Source)
1087.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.DataOutputStream.flush(Unknown Source)
1088.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at ci.run(SourceFile:120)
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] java.net.SocketException: Software caused connection abort: socket write error
1056.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketOutputStream.socketWrite0(Native Method)
1057.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketOutputStream.socketWrite(Unknown Source)
1058.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketOutputStream.write(Unknown Source)
1059.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at org.bouncycastle.crypto.io.CipherOutputStream.write(Unknown Source)
1060.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.BufferedOutputStream.flushBuffer(Unknown Source)
1061.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.BufferedOutputStream.flush(Unknown Source)
1062.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.DataOutputStream.flush(Unknown Source)
1063.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at ci.run(SourceFile:120)
1064.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] java.net.SocketException: Software caused connection abort: recv failed
1065.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketInputStream.socketRead0(Native Method)
1066.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketInputStream.read(Unknown Source)
1067.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketInputStream.read(Unknown Source)
1068.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.FilterInputStream.read(Unknown Source)
1069.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at org.bouncycastle.crypto.io.CipherInputStream.nextChunk(Unknown Source)
1070.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at org.bouncycastle.crypto.io.CipherInputStream.read(Unknown Source)
1071.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.DataInputStream.readFully(Unknown Source)
1072.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.DataInputStream.readFully(Unknown Source)
1073.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at ef.d(Packet.java:348)
1074.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at ef.c(Packet.java:303)
1075.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at ev.a(SourceFile:27)
1076.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at ef.a(Packet.java:166)
1077.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at cg.i(TcpConnection.java:324)
1078.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at cg.c(TcpConnection.java:544)
1079.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at ch.run(SourceFile:93)
1080.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] java.net.SocketException: Software caused connection abort: socket write error
1081.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketOutputStream.socketWrite0(Native Method)
1082.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketOutputStream.socketWrite(Unknown Source)
1083.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.net.SocketOutputStream.write(Unknown Source)
1084.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at org.bouncycastle.crypto.io.CipherOutputStream.write(Unknown Source)
1085.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.BufferedOutputStream.flushBuffer(Unknown Source)
1086.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.BufferedOutputStream.flush(Unknown Source)
1087.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at java.io.DataOutputStream.flush(Unknown Source)
1088.
2013-07-02 13:28:44 [INFO] [STDERR] at ci.run(SourceFile:120)