perhaps you need the reverse of what your trying to do. something i do to control overflow of saplings in an MFR tree farm:
1) hook up diamond pipe to output of MFR harvester, run a pipe from that to the planter for saplings, add pipes for other output items.
2) place a router next to planter, place chest/tesseract/whatever with inventory (cant do directly to pipe, block must be an inventory) to catch ejected items from router. use machine filter and auto eject upgrades. set it to pull from slot 11 of planter (the second slot in the planters inventory). have it auto eject to the inventory block.
what this does is it will always maintain 1 full stack of saplings in the planter, and send any overflow away into where ever you need it. this works well with the mfr fertilizer as well, just have it pull from slot 1 instead.
something else routers can do: if you have more items than an inventory can hold, routers act like buffers...they only feed a machine when space becomes available. and they wont eject items if they become full, unless you are using pipes. what i normally do in that situation:
1) use a deep storage unitl to hold items you need to feed machine(s) with.
2) use a router to pull items from dsu, use auto eject upgrade into a tesseract
3) on machine end, use a tesseract (same frequency as the one on the dsu) to feed another router attached to machine(s) expecting said item
this will ensure machines stay stocked, and will not overflow and spill items all over the map