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You should be able to change the amount of ram used by directly editing the BAT file. You must use this to run the server if you wish to have a custom amount of RAM to allocate to the server.
If your running Linux or Mac you need to use the SH file to start your server. Just right click and make sure its set to run as an executable under properties. Just edit the .sh file the same way you would the .bat file.