Dude, Jesus literally said "Love thy neighbor".
I guess you aren't really following that. Respect other's choices. Ask yourself: "What does trying to change other's decisions add in my life?".
Put yourself in Lia's shoes.
Of course, not being an ass, a slut or a womanizing arsehole helps A LOT. If you can't respect yourself or you make the others feel smaller, you're not loving anyone. Not even yourself.
I guess you aren't really following that. Respect other's choices. Ask yourself: "What does trying to change other's decisions add in my life?".
Put yourself in Lia's shoes.
Of course, not being an ass, a slut or a womanizing arsehole helps A LOT. If you can't respect yourself or you make the others feel smaller, you're not loving anyone. Not even yourself.