Here's my whiny rant about servers...
...why do some people play a modpack for a week or two, never get out of early game, and then decide to move on to another modpack? And why do they do this repeatedly, over and over?
The pattern on our server is always the same. We begin a new world/modpack. Everybody piles in, and for the first week the server is packed. Since I'm retired, I can play more hours than anyone else, so I progress the fastest. Even tho it isn't a race to see who can go the fastest, people begin to fall behind in their progress compared to myself. There are hints of people being upset, jealous, envious, or any other negative human emotion. I begin to notice that some of my stuff is going missing while I'm not on... it depends on the player, but there are always some who seem to have no scruples, no morals or ethics, no compassion or consideration. If they ask me for items, I would very likely freely give it to them. But instead, they sneak in and take, rather than asking.
And then the final phase... people start drifting off. We've played one week in the modpack, maybe two weeks... and now it's more like a ghost town than a bustling server. Eventually, I'm the only one left on that server, the rest have all moved on to another modpack, and at that point I email the server operator and tell him I do not wish to take up an entire server slot just so I can have my own private modpack to play on. LOL So we take the server down, I obtain a copy of it for my own SSP offline play... and we repeat the entire process all over again.
It's pretty comical really, because it always goes exactly the same way. I can't decide if people simply enjoy early game more than mid- or late-game play, or if they're just lazy, or if they just have ADD and can't keep an attention span longer than 2 weeks... I dunno. But it is funny to observe.