So, i'm getting no errors or anything, the server runs fine. But when hosting a server on the same computer as what you're playing on, the host skips in game. No FPS drops, no connection problems, just skipping. Only the host can see it, other players are fine. When hosting on a different PC than the one you're playing on it fixes this problem, but I don't have a second PC. I've read "upping" the RAM does not help, but if it really does i'll get it a shot if someone explains how. But if you've got a different solution please do tell. Thanks 
